James, forgive me if I am wrong but I think you misunderstand what the Sterling is/does.
in a brief nutshell it is a device to charge the leisure battery from the vehicle battery, it has no connection to any other device such as mains hook up, your internal power box, and internal charger or fridge etc.
it is smart enough to only take power out of the vehicle battery if there is a charge going into it ( otherwise you would have a flat vehicle battery).
So it will only turn itself on if the engine is running or you have connected a charger to the vehicle battery. If it doesn’t detect a charge going into the vehicle battery it goes into sleep mode with a blue flashing (very dim) light.
sorry if you already know all this but I wasn’t sure.