Design your energy system to do what YOU need because there are a number of factors that influence how much battery capacity and solar generation to fit.
Lithium has major advantages over AGMs because it will have many more charge cycles and can be discharged much lower than an AGM with no detrimental effects, and it is lighter - Lithium is a no-brainer IMO, the only disadvantage is that the alternator charging system is designed to charge AGM batteries so a DC-DC converter with a lithium charging profile needs to be connected between the 12v AGM system and the 12v Lithium battery system - you end up with the vehicle electrical system (engine etc.) running off the AGM engine battery and all the domestic 12V loads running of the Lithium system. If you have an aftermarket conversion then this should be relatively straightforward, if you have an Ocean or equivalent with a charge-relay, camper unit, and AGM leisure batteries, then a fully integrated lithium conversion is much, much, more complicated (and expensive).
If your usage pattern is to stay somewhere, off-grid, for a long weekend and then drive a reasonable distance before camping again, then maybe just a switch to Lithium will be enough. The use case would be to arrive with the lithium battery fully charged, and leave with it almost empty - charging it fully again using the alternator while moving to the next site.
To decide what capacity you need, you need to do a power budget - and the biggest consumer (assuming you don't have an inverter with lots of 240V devices) will be the fridge. Compressor fridges can use anything from around 0,3kWh to around 0,8kWh dependent on ambient temperature, insulation, contents and size. It is worth getting a watt-meter (
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Diymore-Analyzer-Detectorm-Consumption-systems/dp/B0B96F6RH8) and wiring it in series with your fridge to find out how much it uses over a typical weekend away. Whatever it uses needs to be available, in Ah from the lithium battery you choose - with a bit of extra capacity for all the other 12V loads you have.
If you want to extend the amount of time you can remain off-grid then think about solar as a means of providing additional power ... again, do a power budget and look at how much energy a solar setup will typically produce in the area where you usually camp. You can estimate it here ...
MPPT Calculator - Victron Energy ... the calculator enables you to enter the parameters of the solar system you are thinking of installing and you can get an estimate of the yield by entering the location where you normally use your van.
My energy budget for my van looks like this ....
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... and as I decided to stick with the AGM leisure batteries fitted to my Ocean, I ended up with 310W of solar on the roof. I am in central/southern Europe so it more than covers my energy usage between April and September when I use the van most.