I went SWB as it fits in my garage and as its mainly me and occasionally me and her there’s plenty of room for two.
I also went 4Motion, if you can afford it I would recommend the 4M as it will hold resale value better and with the diff lock option
T32 does limit you to wheels and tyres but I still found that there was more than enough choice..
If you want comfort then you will be looking at some kind of suspension upgrade anyway. Most of us have done this for a better ride.
The DSG is so smooth through the 7 speed box its a pleasure to drive... my only gripe about the DSG is the momentary lag pulling off from a standing start.. this is because its mapped to expect upto 3 ton of weight in the back... so a DSG remap will eliminate this...