I had the same type of wiring issues when I did mine but is T6 Euro 6 so my BCM wire went to pin 36 .. yours maybe correct on Pin 17.
Your +12V splice to light switch wire I remember the wire as solid black !
In all event .. you need to remove the 6 wires from clock connector IF you've had stalk CC from factory as mine was ... it's all detailed on Chang1 post titled something like 'Retrofit MFSW .......... with paddles '
thank you for that. i think you are right I think it may need to be the black wire.
I have CC but it was a retrofit from VW, i would like to include this but no idea where to start with that!
i am now questioning if my van is eu5 or 6. It does not have adblue so i guessed 5 but i cant find that is tells be anywhere! It was registered in November 2015!