We are all in the same boat with h4s . The upgraded bulbs will help but they will never be fun to drive at night. Vw should help as they could Offer a upgrade at cost but then they would need to agree these are unsafe. It’s hard to see how they got through test driving at night when designing the van. I only use mine for work so winter driving is over for me as I now go and come home in the light until next year.