Hi Guys, back and refreshed having not had my "Regret" anywhere near me and no contact from VW.
Back to normality. VW fitted a new EGR valve at the advice of the factory, although it looked ok. They test drove it 400 odd miles while I was away and no EML. I've picked it up and put another 200 odd miles and all seems well. Still expect it to come on but we will see. If it goes past 350 miles of my own driving then that will be the most it would have done, I really hope this is the end of it.
Next fight will be compensation, or "Good Will" as VW call it. VW brand asked me is there anything I wanted, VW accessories etc. I said first off until I've done at least 400 miles I'm not happy to close this issue and the only accessory would be a Removable Tow Bar and the required wiring. He said it looked like it came to approx £1500 which could be too much. I said it won’t cost you that and that's the least I expect from them. He said he will talk to the dealers as most of it is labor cost and get back to me next week. I should also get some money back from the finance company too.