@Tourershine thibk you may have answered my next question on whether to get it professionally done then try and maintain. I've 2 young kids and a dog... the van will be used and touched so don't expect perfection and don't want to spend another fortune as little fingers don't care!
Is there anything out there that will keep it the right side of ok?
There are loads of products that protect for a few months, but if it's perfection people want, then pro's only with Black in my opinion.
The most common issue I see with kids is suncream handprints, so just watch them touching or leaning on the paint with suncream, because this etches into the surface.
Other than that, I wouldn't stress too much or it takes over your daily life, like it has for many of us and that can remove the enjoyment of owning a vehicle.