I can't comment on the turbo seals, they may have failed.
I very much doubt that you need a new DPF, it's easier and more profitable for them to replace it than clean it.
If you decide to get it replaced, ask them for the old one back, watch their faces drop. A DPF, blocked or not, is worth good money due to the rare metals inside it.
A mobile mechanic in Bedfordshire (I know, it's not practical for you due to distance) uploads videos to Youtube and shows how he unblocks DPF's that garages have said must be replaced, without removing them from the vehicle. He does a lot of work for garages that can't solve DPF problems. I've never met anybody from the company and have no connection to them but two friends have used them who had persistent DPF problems and were very happy with the outcomes.
I think you are doing the right thing looking for a local specialist.