Can I confirm what you mean by this? My van has a 13-pin connection and I am trying to swap it for a flat 7-pin connection because that is what my family uses on a few trailers and a boat. I found a wiring diagram for the 13-pin which aligned with the wire colours on the socket, but when I put indicators or tail lights on I measured a voltage fluctuating around 2V.
Do you mean to say that the computer leaves a low voltage on the wire and, if a load (example being a light bulb) is connected across a few of them then it decides a trailer is connected and then delivers power according to the lights in the car?
I was a bit lost today and under time pressure. If my understanding is correct, I am guessing that I can just wire it up according to the wiring diagram for the respective sockets and it will work. Do you think that is correct?