IMHO and as said on a few occasions in the thread, getting to the BCM and tapping the right pin is a bit of a nightmare and a lot of effort although it is the 'right' technical solution. But if you manage to leave your ignition on the DC-DC is not going to be the only thing draining your battery and maybe not the most pressing problem.
I would offer a couple of good reasons to tap off the fusebox. 1. Its easy to remove if you change your DC-DC in the future. 2. Its easy to check the sensing fuse. 3. You won't have trouble with ALL of the rest of the serviecs if you mess up the BCM connector.