Pin 44 on the BCM connector T73
a (BCM black connector) is correct +12V (IGNition on) for you. It's fused by SC32. I'm assuming the "A" is the T73a, and "B" is respectively T73b (BCM white connector)
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However, I'm a bit curious about wiring. See on connector T41 pins 26 and 29 in the snippet below. Are they connected together in your wiring?
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Full OEM wiring diagram in the link - see page 102/2 for the above
Cruise Control System Circuit Diagram Covers Euro 6 style cruise control operated from steering wheel buttons VIP Membership is required to download this document
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