It was my wife's birthday yesterday, I took a day off work (I usually work every other Saturday and Sunday) to spend with her and the kids and we originally planned to be at home and have a lazy day together. Over breakfast we made a different choice, we were going to pop to a local coastal village for the afternoon. We chatted a bit about it, should we be doing that at this time and what were the risks? In the end we justified it to ourselves and decided to go out. We said we would take a picnic, eat it in the van, have a stroll along the beach, climb the rocks and small cliffs with the kids and then head home. We said we wouldn't use any food/drink outlets if any were open and we would keep our distance from anyone else who had decided to do the same.
So, that's exactly what we did, exactly what we did. We had a lovely time, the sun was shining, there was even some warmth in it, it felt like a normal spring day.
When we got home we unpacked our stuff and got some tea ready. Once we sat down to tea, we looked at each other and started discussing the day. That conversation soon turned to us asking questions like; Should we really have gone out today? Was it the right thing to do? After not very long at all we had both come to the conclusion that no, we shouldn't have gone and no, it wasn't the right thing to do.
In fact, we're both pretty disappointed with ourselves. We knew before we went that we shouldn't, hence the self justification as we made the decision to do what we wanted and not what was the right thing to do. You always learn more from your mistakes than successes though, so other than me coming to work, we'll be staying at home until official advice says otherwise and we'll hope that we haven't assisted the spread of the virus. This post will no doubt offer us up to some criticism, but we're well aware that we should have stayed at home and as I say, we won't be going out again, until the advice changes.
I'm now sat at work and some thoughts have come into my head. I'm the only one in these offices on a weekend, but come tomorrow there'll be 30 or so people in here and about the same in the office above. Some are working from home so that those left here can distance themselves from each other, which makes some sense. However, everyone uses the same 2 kitchen areas to make tea/coffee, breakfast, lunch etc. etc. and everyone uses the same cubicles and urinals to go to the toilet and same sinks, taps and soap dispensers to wash their hands. We all use the same handles to open doors, the same clocking machines to clock in and out and so on, so there's no way you can stop the spread if someone here is carrying the virus, so why are we open at all?